Dammit, our parents were right

Parents helping their daughter learn to ride a bike

I’m almost the same age my mom was when she had me.

As my friends and I approach the ripe age of 30, I’m realizing more and more that the cliches of getting older are cliches for a reason.

There are the funnier ones, like:

• hangovers get worse
• it’s easier to build fat
• we enjoy quiet alone time more

But in this blog, I’d like to briefly discuss a recent shift in my perspective. Let me explain.

Until now, I’ve relished a fairly obligation-free life. I’ve been single most years. I have no kids or pets. I’ve never owned any real estate.

But something struck me the other day as I was laying on the couch with Hank—my friends’ dog I’m pet-sitting.

Hank the dog laying on the couch
Sorry for the crouch-shot.

I’ve spent the last two weeks walking, feeding, and playing with this other living creature. Here’s what I’ve realized.

We may begrudge adding more responsibility to our plates, but it makes our lives more fulfilling and purposeful.

When I wake up at 6:30 and can’t see straight, I hear a rhythmic thumping as Hank’s tail wags and slams against my wall. It doesn’t matter how many times we do it; he’s elated to get up, eat breakfast, and go for a stroll around my apartment complex.

Every morning.

If that doesn’t motivate someone to get their day started I don’t know what would.

Parents might roll their eyes reading this. I’m aware I’m just watching a dog here.

But this is my first true experience of another living being depending on me to survive and live an enjoyable life. It’s been a real jolt of energy to add some responsibility to my life.

One of my best friends, for example, just had a baby. Even being ‘Crazy Uncle Dill’ has added some meaning to my days.

Her first words were: “Dillan is hilarious.”

I’m not saying I’m trying to have kids tomorrow. I’m saying I’ll remember this as a pivotal mindset shift as I become…dare I say it…an adult.